What makes me happy, being understood, and being in a community that I can understand. A lot of the times, fandom is that for me, because I participate invisibly. Like I know how to avoid wank, and where to get exactly the info I need. I can avoid places that makes me unhappy, and just jump in a pile of happy things.
I do all of this invisibly and I really like it.
I do all of this invisibly and I really like it.